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Just to fill y'all in, here are the posts that I am giving advice to:




okay, I have just one URGENT question. Say that u really like a girl and she wants u to kiss her, but the day that u plan on doing it, everyone happens to be there!! By some strange coincidence, the entire lacrosse team, is watching u and the girl u like talk, as well as making extremely rude remarks!!!!!!! Well, do u think that this is fate's way of saying we shouldn't be together and that we shouldn't be together? Also, at what point in a relationship do u think kissing is okay? 






This advice is really helpful, except I WANT to kiss her, I just don't know how... I am in a state of awkwardness with my girlfriend, and I feel that if I don't kiss her soon, she will DEFINITELY break up with me, which is something I don't want! Still confused about what I should do in my relationship...
P.S. i have also been having a MAJOR problem with putting my arm over her largely because of the height difference between us, she told me to lower my elbow, but by doing that, I am touching her waist, is that okay? 



<3 madi

5 Comments:

  1. Elena said...
    I know I'm not the one who's supposed to give advice here, but touching her waist a little bit is fine. She'll be okay with it, if she's not, I'm sure you can figure out another way to be close to her! ^_^

    If you don't kiss her, she shouldn't break up with you. Go at your own pace so you can have a good relationship.
    Also, don't feel awkward. You shouldn't because you should just be you. Relax and be who you are. Kiss her when you feel the time is right. Don't feel like she's pressuring you. R-E-L-A-X and everything will be okay. ;)
  2. averageteen said...
    That's exactly what I said, Elena :) We have the same mind ;)
  3. Anonymous said...
    Well, all of your advice has been extremely useful :) I think that I am ready to kiss her, and take the next level in our relationship! However, there is just one more problem, (I'm sorry if I'm stressing you out by telling you about all the problems in my relationship and then asking for advice about it) whenever we are alone, or attempting to be alone, her ex boyfriend is always around. Not only does his presence bother me when we are together, but the fact that he hugs her and puts his arm around her occasionally annoys me to the extent that there is a risk I might implode!!! I'm soooooo stressed out about this because I will be gone for a week leaving her alone with him, and I really don't want her to cheat on me, or attempt to cheat on me, AGAIN... Your advice would be greatly appreciated :)
  4. Anonymous said...
    more about me... ok, as im reading these, im like dying... nd i feel even worse, but u gave him good advice, nd i feel terrible about this now :/ i rlly wished he would've talked to me about this... there would've prolly been a better ending to our relationship, or better yet, we would still be going out **sigh**
  5. averageteen said...
    Anonymous (I won't put your name out there in case you don't want it to be :) ), PLEEEASE do not feel bad. You are NOT a horrible person, by any means. There are two sides to every relationship. I understand that it's hard looking back on these, but you have to realize that people have different views of every situation, and you shouldn't regret something that you feel, or at least felt, was right. Don't let the past ruin your present or future. <3

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