Dear friend with urgent question,
Mmhm, that is a dilemma! Well, here's my take on the situation:
Although I do sometimes believe in fate (frankly it depends on the situation) I wouldn't base your whole relationship on one incident. Although this rude lacrosse team seems to have some sort of problem with your relationship, I would assume that you don't even know them very well anyway, so don't let it bother you. If you feel right in the relationship, then you should do what you feel is right. On the other hand, if something seems like it's not going right, or something bigger than the lacrosse team is bothering you about the situation, then that is a reason to talk about it with her. If after talking about it you still don't feel right, then maybe you should think about slowing down, taking a break, or breaking it off.
I also noticed that you said that your girlfriend (if you don't mind titles? Alright, let's stick with "this girl") wants you to kiss her. I think that the real question is are you ready? Because if you are not, by no means should you let yourself be pressured into it. People have different opinions of when in a relationship it is "okay" to kiss someone, but I believe that both people should be comfortable with one another and their relationship first. If she persists when you tell her you're not ready, I think that is a better way to judge whether the relationship is right.
So, friend, keep me informed on how this advice works out... I hope I helped. But do keep me updated, either here or through email, because I would love to try again if this doesn't work.
Hope all goes well!
<3 madi
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P.S. i have also been having a MAJOR problem with putting my arm over her largely because of the height difference between us, she told me to lower my elbow, but by doing that, I am touching her waist, is that okay?